Day One  

Posted by cokelady

Surprise!!! I didn't warn you that I would be blogging while on vacation. Probably because I didn't know it myself until a little while ago. James whipped out the laptop and I thought, "Hhmmmm..." ;-)

So the first day has been great. Nothing monumental really, just such a nice, relaxing, enjoyable day. We left Andrews at about 10:00 this morning and have just kind of moseyed (mosied?!) our way south through most of the day. We came to a nice little town named Brady and James came across this huge...place. I have no idea how to describe it. James thought it was an antique store (that's why we stopped), but there were no antiques to be found. It was a full block's length of store--it just kept going and going and going... They had furniture of all types, from old victorian looking stuff and fainting couches to rustic western and truly Texas stuff, along with any and every item of decor imaginable. It was sooooo neat--especially all of the western stuff. My Dad would love it! There was a huge spiral staircase in the center of the store and at the top was a suit of armor (only $3999.00! Ha!) and tons of grandfather clocks and old-time wash basins and rare and interesting things of all kinds. Even the kids enjoyed it! It was great.

When we left Brady things got even better. A few minutes after leaving town we began noticing small blue patches along the side of the road. Texas Bluebonnets!!! I was soooooooo excited! I can't help but think of my Grandmother. She always loved the bluebonnets and she and Granddaddy always planned their trips to San Antonio this time of the year when they'd be in full bloom. I made James pull over so I could take a picture of my very first bluebonnets. :-)


One of the next towns we went through had a true-blue junk store, the kind James loves. You know, the kind that has a real once-in-a-lifetime treasure hidden somewhere in it... if you're willing to dig through the tons and tons (literally) of JUNK to unearth it. I hate places like that, but James just loves the hunt. I decided to wait in the van with the kids (one was asleep) and then I noticed that surrounding this junk store were more bluebonnets! And not just blue ones either--there were burgundy and even some white looking ones. Neat, hu?

This is a close up of the burgundy ones. They're kind of neat but...

There's just nothing that can compare to the original and traditional blue Texas Bluebonnet.


Isn't it pretty??? I think I'm in love. ;-) I must admit that I've always kind of wondered why so many Texans are, well, die-hard Texans! You know, the kind that are sooooooo proud of Texas and would beat the tar out of you if you said anything against it. --My Grandmother was one! Until this trip, the only part of Texas I've ever seen is west Texas and the Interstate route that takes you through Dallas, and it's anything but spectacular. (It's a lot nicer to say that than, "Boy, it is DOG UGLY here!") But this part of Texas is truly beautiful. I've never been through terrain like this and James and I both LOVE it. It's so green and lush (without the humidity you get in the deep south or back east) and the trees are so... different! They twist and turn and spread out like none I've ever seen before and each one looks completely different from the next. There are lots of streams and rivers and wide, sprawling fields of daisies and bluebonnets and hills and rocks and bluffs... It's just so unique. Beautiful.

We stopped at a few little shops in Fredricksburg and really liked that town, too. Believe it or not, the kids have enjoyed our nice "slow" day today, too. Parts of it, anyway. ;-) It was just sooooooooooo nice to just go. To just get in the car and go where it took us with no time pressures, no schedule, only a 5 hour drive ahead of us but no need to hurry there, just take in all the sights along the way purely for the fun of it. It's just felt so nice and relaxing. God is good and we're so blessed!

Okay, I've gotta check on prices for the stuff we're hoping to do tomorrow. I'll try to write each night with an update, but I know better than to make any promises! So we'll just say, "Until next time..."

~Becki~

Remember the Alamo!!!  

Posted by cokelady

Actually, all you have to remember is that that's where I'm going. :-) I am sooooo excited!!! I've wanted to see the Alamo my whole life and it's actually going to happen! I'm even more excited after the "research" I've done on it the past week or two. The whole thing is just so fascinating--how 189 men held off nearly 4,000 bad guys (!) for so long and all of the reasons why and what happened next and what it meant for Texas and, consequently, for the states that weren't yet part of the Union... And did you know that William Travis (the guy who led the good guys at the Alamo) was only 26 years old?! Amazing. "Victory or death," he wrote to his family, telling them that he was determined to hold out as long as he could, and concerning his only son, "...if the country be lost and I should perish, he will have nothing but the proud recollection that he is the son of a man who died for his country." I can't wait to learn more and be able to actually see where this incredible battle took place--to be there. How cool is that?!

The kids are excited and I'm just hoping it lasts long enough for me to be able to enjoy it all before they get restless! It'll all be good. I'm excited to see some Texas Bluebonnets (will be another first for me) and the River Walk and all of the great things we keep hearing about San Antonio. And I'm really excited to be able to go see Adam in the hospital too, although it sounds really weird in the same paragraph with everything else. "Yeah, we're going to take in the Alamo, the zoo, the busted up guy at the hospital..." Ha! Do pray for the Lord to continue to work in Adam's heart and soften him. He needs God!!! And pray for God to give us wisdom. I want to say the right words in the right spirit--and only God can make that happen.

Sea World--I'm also sooooo excited about Sea World! We're saving that until last because I'm afraid if we went there first the kids would be bored silly with things like the Alamo. From what I've been reading, the park is somewhat separated; the animal attractions being on one side and the rides on the other. Perfect! We're going to see the animals and it'll be nice to not have to work our way through all the rest. I also read that they let you feed and pet the dolphins now (no charge)--something we didn't get to do when I went at age 11. That is sooooo cool! The kids are going to LOVE it. Almost as much as their mother. ;-) I could go on, but you're going to hear about all of the same things soon enough, only in past tense. I'm just so excited!!! (Have I mentioned that?!)

Seems like there was lots more to write about, but all I can think about at the moment is our trip. We've entered into the wee hours of the morning now and I really ought to get some sleep if I intend to be alert enough to enjoy myself on our journeys (!), so SO LONG!!!

Love You All,
~ Rebekah ~

Does Anyone Else Have Difficulty With Titles?  

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Well, well, well. Where to start? The bake sale was, well... a lot of work! I don't know why, but I took this one sooooo much harder than the others! It just seemed so exhausting. It's always a lot of work, but on the day of the actual sale it's a breeze. This time even the sale day felt like hard work! This was the slowest sale we've ever had and in the beginning we were pretty concerned about how little we were selling--and how much food we would have left over! After about two ours Tammy and I decided: "We need a kid!" So I hopped in the van and went to Aunt Sue's store (she was babysitting for me) and picked up Joe, our best salesman. Just having him there helped a little bit, but things were still a little slow. We had TONS of peanut butter fudge and it wasn't moving at all, so I cut some up into little cubes and gave the plate to Joe. He stood in front of the table asking, "Would you like to try some fudge?" in his best Texas drawl. That helped, but still wasn't enough. I wasn't planning on having him at the bake sale so I hadn't dressed him "cute." So I ran home and got his cowboy duds! We shoved him under the bake sale table, stripped him down and changed him into all his gear: hat, boots, spurs (forgot the chaps), holster and gun. Every tactic we tried brought a little more success, it just felt like really slow going. We didn't think we'd done all that good and sales we're really slow at about 2:00 so we decided to take the sale on the road. We headed down to the City Administration Building and made the rounds in there. They bought some and sent us over to the police department, who sent us to the courthouse, who sent us to the annex building... We went to the library (I know most of the folks who work there) and the newspaper office (were Brother Sam works) and we had lots of good sales in those two places. We probably ended up with an additional $50 with the traveling bake sale. ;-) It was a beautiful day and felt good to get some exercise treking around down town. Our grand total was $328.57 and we were thrilled! In the beginning of the day we were thinking we'd be lucky to hit $200. God blessed and it was all good. Exhausting, but good.

That was Friday. Then yesterday came along. We're leaving for San Antonio this coming Tuesday so I got to thinking about what I'd be packing. That meant pulling all of my summer clothes out of the back of Katie's closet all of my sweaters and turtlenecks out of my closet and switching them. I was looking at my summer shirts and it suddenly occurred to me... SOCKS. I'm a little embarrassed to admit this, but... I have so many fun socks now that they won't all fit into my drawer (not easily, anyway!), so I pulled all of my summer socks (the ones with flowers and butterflies and such) out of the drawer in the fall to make room for the socks with autumn leaves and Christmas stuff. (Most girls have too many shoes; I couldn't care less about shoes, but can't pass up a pair of great socks!) ANYWAY, I couldn't find my summer socks. I'm going on a trip in three days, I have my summer clothes out, but no socks to wear with them! Aaauuuuuggggghhhhhhhhh! (Unless you're a sock enthusiast you can't possibly understand the frustration.) So I tore up everything in my bedroom trying to find them. I finally stumbled across them in Katie's closet (next to where the summer shirts had been, of course), but not before I had totally cleaned out and rearranged everything under my bed, in my pajama drawer, the top and bottom of my closet... So I got some extra cleaning done that I hadn't counted on! That felt good. Almost as good as finding my socks. ;-)

Along with the sock search and the cleaning and sorting it necessitated, I also moved everything out of the kitchen and did the big, ugly scrub job on the kitchen floor. It really needed it. I actually only got half of the floor done before I gave out. I ended up moving into the den and watching Bonanza while I ironed the mountain of laundry that I'd been doing all day. Finally finished that up and made it to bed at about 1:30am. This morning I got up and worked another hour or two on the other half of the kitchen floor and finally got it finished in time to get a shower and have everybody ready for Church. We had a good service, came home, ate left-overs, then I cleaned out the fridge and washed up all the dishes before dozing for a few minutes--I desperately needed a nap!!! It always feels sooooooo good when you've been working really hard and feel like you've earned it, you know?!

It started raining tonight, so James had me call Sam and Tammy and ask if they wanted to meet us at Tortas y Mas for dinner. Last year sometime we had a tornado warning in effect and we all went down there to eat. You have to understand: Tortas y Mas is a little itty-bitty building with no indoor seating at all, just two picnic tables out front on a little covered porch. Not exactly where the weatherman would recommend to take cover in the event of a tornado! Anyway, James thought of it tonight and wanted to do it again "for old time's sake" or something. We didn't last too long down there though 'cuz it was COLD once we started getting a little wet! So we brought the party back here to our house and played our Wheel of Fortune video game and then watched Moe and the Big Exit while playing Rummy. What a great night!
BUT... the thunder is picking up again and I need to get the computer shut down for the night. Have a great one--I'll try to post something tomorrow night since we'll be leaving Tuesday. I'M SOOOOOOO EXCITED!!!

G'night!
~Becki~

It's Time  

Posted by cokelady

I've been putting this off for a whole week now--the blogging thing. I just haven't been inspired to write anything. For starters, I know that nothing I could write will ever compare to that great video I posted last time and I kind of hate for the viewings to stop. I wish there was some way to set up a counter on that thing. I wonder how many times it's been watched now and by how many different people... Our family watched it 8 or 10 times a day for the first few days it was there. It was such a great way to start the day. "Do it again, Mom! Can we watch it again??? That's sooooooo funny!!!"

The other reason I haven't blogged is the "mood" thing. I just haven't been in it. Actually, I'm still not. The only reason I'm blogging right now is because we've got a bake sale coming up on Friday and I realize that if I don't do it now it'll be a few more days until I get to it and I don't want to have to start receiving all of those "Where are you, you slacker!" comments. So this is what you'd call preventative blogging. (Kind of like eating so that you won't get hungry instead of waiting until you're there already.)

Let's see, what news is there... We will soon be embarking on a family trip to San Antonio!!! I'm sooooooo excited! I've wanted to go see the Alamo all my life. I've always regretted that I never took a trip there with Grandmother and Granddad when I had the chance. I've been trying to get the kids all geared up for it and they seem real excited, too. We went to the library today and checked out lots of books about it and I've been reading to them and talking to them about it for the past few days. Joe was loving the whole thing until he found out that the Mexicans won the battle. "You mean they lost?! The good guys lost?!?!?" Not easy for me to accept either, but at least I can follow it up with, "Yeah, but those few Texans took out a whole slew of the bad guys and because they fought so long and hard Sam Houston was able to come along a few weeks later and beat the Mexicans and win independance for Texas!" And he wasn't happy at all when he found out Davy Crockett got killed there. I'm just releaved that Joe hasn't seemed to make any connection between the "bad Mexicans" at the Alamo and our precious Spanish people in the Church! Ha! Then I'd have to try to explain why some Mexican people are so wonderful and we love them sooooooo much, but that Santa Anna was just a really bad dude and how ruthless he was and how he didn't love God... Reality has got to be so confusing for a kid. Anyway (I got a little side-tracked!), we'll be leaving for San Antonio on Tuesday and will spend a few days taking in the sights (the Alamo, the River Walk, the zoo--maybe even the dolphins and killer whales!), then we'll be home Saturday. That's the plan, anyway! It's great 'cuz we'll be able to go see Adam Clifton and the Brooks while we're there. They don't know it yet (!), but I sure am looking forward to it! (Keep praying for Adam, please! And... does anybody know the latest???)

The most exciting event of the day around here is that Joe shot his cap gun!!! Once. 'Cuz Mom made him. He started asking about the caps this afternoon, so I put a roll in his gun for him. Then he backed out and wouldn't touch the thing. I asked if he wanted me to fire it a few times so he could get used to it. He said that sounded good. I asked him to tell me when he was ready. He quickly ran into the other room, covered his ears, peeked around the corner and said, "I'm ready!" ~sigh~ (He wouldn't have been much help at the Alamo!!! Ha!) I fired it a few times, then made him come into the room with me. I told him that I wanted him to fire it just one time--just once--then I'd let him leave. He came and took the gun, but then got scared and threw the thing down and ran out of the room crying. ~big sigh~ I ordered him back into the room and told him that he was going to shoot that gun one time and (this is so pitiful) that I would hold him while he did it if he needed me to. Realizing I was going to make him go through with it he sighed heavily, then put his hands over his eyes and sent up a quick but earnest prayer. "Dear Jesus, please help me to shoot that gun and keep me safe and don't let me get hurt and..." I don't remember everything he prayed, but I know there was more. He came over, crawled in my lap, picked up the gun and fired away. Handled it great. He then hopped down, left the room and hollered over his shoulder that I could take the caps out now and to let him know when they were gone and he could come back! Ha! That kid!!! I took the caps out and showed them to him. "Joe, it's paper. That's all it is--a strip of paper!!! It's got these little dots of gunpowder on it, but that's it--there's no way it could possibly hurt you!" After a while he brought me his gun and a long, narrow strip of paper that he had cut, colored red and drawn little circles on--fake caps--and asked me to put them in his gun. I chuckled, then loaded the gun. He was scared of it and wouldn't take it! Ha! Ha! Ha! I guess if the other strip was nothin' but paper and it went off, then why couldn't his homemade caps go off, too?! Ha! Crazy kid!

Well, I've got 12 little loaves of poppyseed bread (11 actually--I noticed one loaf is half eaten already) that need to be wrapped up and packaged for the bake sale, along with two pans of Reese's squares--assuming they turned out okay and aren't too mushy. Tomorrow Tammy will come over and we'll have our big baking day. I'll be making tons of chocolate chip cookies, snickerdoodles, Rice Krispy treats, and maybe some lemon bars. I have no idea what Tammy is making. Last I heard, she had no idea either! Aunt Sue will provide all the fudge, as it's about the only thing she can make (best in the world!) and it's one thing that we absolutely cannot make! It works out well. :-) Anyway, there's some more work to do before calling it a night, so I'd best get back to it. I'll try to post something on Friday or Saturday and at least let you know how the sale went. Until then...

~Rebekah~

Worth the Wait...  

Posted by cokelady

Please forgive my failure to blog these past few days. I've been working ever so diligently on trying to figure out how to put a video clip on here. I've spent a total of 4 or 5 hours working on this and even made a phone call to Alaska (thank you, Jenna!) and one to Denver. All for the sake of this video. I assure you, the phone call to Denver is never an enjoyable one. I don't know how Jon makes it as a computer tech. Sure, he's good, but he's such a creep! All I can figure is that he must treat his paying customers better than he does his family. Anyway, he worked with me long enough to get this thing up and going. I hope it works!!! He mentioned that it might not work on Mac computers. We'll see, I guess! ENJOY!!!
(The next post, that is -- don't know how that happened, but scroll down! You'll be glad you did!!!)

 

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Cowboyin' It!  

Posted by cokelady

Yesterday started out as an ordinary day: breakfast, clean bedrooms, school. James had the 12-8:00pm shift at Mardel, so when he left at about 11:00 I loaded the kids up and drove over to Big Spring (60 miles) to go to an auction house to look for some chairs to go with their new school desks. Found just what we were looking for ($5 apiece), loaded them up, then drove around Big Spring a little bit just to see what's there. Nice little place, really. We ate at Wendy's--a rare treat (the one in Midland is gross and we never go there), then headed home.

We got here and I immediately set to work on their desks. The chairs were just slightly too tall for them to be used at the desks at their present height, so I extended the legs on the desks to make them just an inch or two taller. This, of course, means that each freshly painted desk leg now has an unpainted 1 or 2" ring! No matter. I need to paint the chairs now anyway, so I'll just slop some on the unfinished spots on the desks while I'm at it.

Tammy came over at about 5:00 and told me to load up the kids--we're going to the new arena! They've just completed construction on a gigantic arena here in Andrews to be used for rodeo events and all sorts of other things and yesterday was their opening day. The Cowboy Church (for real--there are tons of them out here) provided a chuckwagon dinner (bar-b-que brisket sandwhiches, cole slaw, beans and sweet tea) and they did team roping -- all for free. It was just local folks competing last night, but it was still a lot of fun to watch. There was even a kid--maybe 12 years old or so--that was the "hindermost" part of a team. ;-) (For those who know nothing about team roping: they release a calf and two cowboys on horses chase him down, the first cowboy ropes the calf's neck or around his horns, then the second cowboy ropes the calf's hind feet.) The kids were sooooooooo excited! Theyv'e never seen anything like this before and they thought it was terrific.

The only bad part about all of it is that Joe is still on his cowboy-stuff ban (it ends this next Wednesday) and so he wasn't able to dress up in all his duds like Katie and Sam did. It was really hard to follow through on that one and I almost cracked and let him wear them "just this one night," but James got me straightened out and we stuck to the rules. It was pretty hard on him (and me too!), but maybe it will get through to him all the more to watch his attitude an avoid future trouble because you just never know when you're going to be able to go see cowboys around here. Right??? ~sigh~ I sure hope so! Anyway, here are a couple of pictures of the kids who were able to dress for the occasion...


Enjoying dinner...




The kids were thrilled to meet Rio, up close!


Rio was sweet, but rather nervous as you can see! His ears were layed straight back like that in all of the pictures! Ha! -- Notice the spurs and chaps Sam is sporting, compliments of Sister Clarkson. ;-)

It was a lot of fun and a great environment (it's smoke and alcohol free) and there were tons of little cowboys and cowgirls there! My kids were loving it!!!

I'm going to try to get motivated today to paint the new chairs for the kids. I'm running low on energy for some reason and would really rather loaf. We'll see what happens. The kids are out back playing right now. The only thing we've really accomplished today was devotions and even that wasn't a smashing success. Joe was cutting up and I had to get on to him. (So much for the cowboy ban helping his attitude! Ha!) After we were all done, he showed me the picture he'd been drawing. This time it was a monster with big, gnarly teeth thinking about me being in jail. For real--he'd drawn the thought cloud with little dots linking it to the monster's head, and in the thought cloud was a stick figure with long hair, frowning behind bars. That kid. Katie and Sam were released to go play and Joe had to sit and draw another picture (a nice one) before leaving, but somehow I don't think I'm winning with this kid! I notice that nobody out there had any suggestions on how to deal with the traps either. (Thanks a lot, you guys!) You know--after he gets in trouble for something he'll go around the house with that evil cackle of his, setting his "traps" right by my chair, or right in front of me while I'm walking, or wherever he thinks I might go next. Emilee, what would you do??? Or how 'bout some of you who have successfully raised your kids already?! Isn't there anybody out there who can help me???

Losing to a 5 year old,
~Becki~
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A New Day  

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Been a good one today, although it got off to a rather slow start. The kids and I didn't even have devotions until nearly 11:00! That's so bad. Afterward we loaded up and returned all of our books (due today) to the library. We didn't get anything new because James has been bringing home so many great kid books from Mardel that we've got a whole slew of them that we haven't had a chance to read yet! (Once stuff hits 75% off he starts combing through it. --He gets an additional 15% off of that price. If it hits 90% off he brings it home no matter what it is--it wouldn't matter if it was a pink elephant with a feather boa. "I just couldn't pass it up--it was such a great deal!!!" Ha!) Anyway...

We took lunch to Stacey (she was working Aunt Sue's store today) and visited with her for a little while, then ran to pick up a loaf of bread before heading home.

I spent the afternoon working on laundry and cleaning house. After a while I sent Katie out to clean up the toys in the backyard and had Joe cleaning up the living room. Sam wanted to help me clean the bathroom. I didn't know what I was in for. That kid never used to make a peep. He never shuts up now. It made me think of what Emilee was telling me about Abbie this past weekend and how she's turned into such a chatterbox. "I used to really like Abigail," she told Jon, "but she's driving me crazy!!! She talks all the time!" Ha! It's the same thing around here with Sam. He hardly took a breath the whole time we were cleaning. He was pretending to be Super Sam and using his best heroic voice the whole time. He was there to save the day, he kept telling me. "I'm strong! And I'm going to get all of those germs!," he'd say, while sloshing a wet rag across the floor. "Stand back, Mom! That's a da-a-a-a-a-a-a-angerous germ over there... I'll get it!!!" And on and on it went. I never knew that superheroes took such great interest in ridding the world of germs, but considering the task at hand, Super Sam found it appropriate. When he finally tired of of the killing-the-germs speech he burst into song... A lively rendition of "rocky a soul in a boogie of Abe-a-ham." Don't ask--I don't know. He's the only one of my children to ever sing it that way and I still can't figure out how it got started.

Sam finally tired of the bathroom project and went to find other adventures. Within minutes he was standing right outside the door, jabbering up a storm again. "I ate half a bad coconut, Mom--it was so bad!!! I ate half of it and it was yuck so I spit it out. It landed on my boot so then... [blah, blah, blah] ... it was my dessert, but...[blah, blah, blah]" Where is the duct tape when you really need it??? I finally decided that the "coconut" must've been a pecan from the back yard. He crushes them with his cowboy boot, then picks the pieces apart and eats the nut. He must've got a piece of the shell, thus the bad taste. I don't know when or why he started calling them coconuts.

Then there's poor Joe. He's been banned from cowboy stuff for the rest of the week and had to do without balls or weapons for the rest of the day today, too. I've found that it's more effective to take away favorite things than it is to spank, in some situations! However, nothing seemed to work very well today! He didn't really do anything all that bad, it's just the attitude he gets. I'm hoping that tomorrow will go better than today and he'll forsake the I-will-not-be-conquered attitude that we've been contending with.

Katie read her first "real" book on our Colorado trip--one without any pictures, just pages full of words. 56 pages, I think. So I got her a 100 page book to try--20 chapters. She started yesterday and she's on chapter 11. Wow. I must've been 10 or 12 years old before I had any interest in things like that! Crazy kid!

I finished up the 8th and final book in the series tonight. I've found that I can read a book easily enough in two nights if I want to. We've been watching very little tv lately and I've been doing so much more reading. I intend to lay off the novels for a while and do some more "spiritual" reading now. I've enjoyed these books and even been blessed by them, but I think I need to dive into some non-fiction for a while. It's felt so good to spend liesure time reading instead of watching the tube. We did, however, watch a Beverly Hillbillies episode tonight. (James brought home a couple of them from Mardel today. They'd gone on sale--what was he to do?!) It was great. The kids laughed and laughed and laughed. It's soooooo much fun to watch it with them!

Okay, I'm done rambling. Oh, I almost forgot--we went to sing at the nursing home tonight. Brother Sam was sick with a high fever (say a prayer for him, please!) and didn't want to take that to the nursing home and James didn't make it back from Midland in time, so that left just me and the kids and Tammy and Aunt Sue. We did our best and sang our hearts out (James is the one who usually carries us through any music around here!) and God blessed. We had Katie sing several songs tonight since she's the most talented among the bunch and that went well. It was good.

Okay, I'm really done now! Have a great night!!!

~Becki~

I did it! I posted two days in a row!
Wa-Hoo!!! I'm The Good One. ;-)

They've Got Spurs  

Posted by cokelady

...that jingle-jangle-jingle, as they go riding merrily along; And they say, "Oh, ain't you glad you're single," and that song ain't so very far from wrong!

Yes siree, my boys are now the proud new owners of spurs. Real spurs. That loony Sister Clarkson is to blame and I think she's moved to a whole new level popularity with my kids. (As if they weren't crazy enough about her already!) She also made chaps for the boys (they are soooooo cute) and a dress for Katie! WOW! What a woman!!! Katie has already worn her dress and you can't strip the chaps off the boys for anything. The spurs have an "outside only" rule attached to them (compliments of Dad), so Joe has spent most of the morning in the back yard, jingle-jangling all over the place. ~Ah, yes~ This is how it should be. Now if they only had a horse... (Don't get any funny ideas, Sister Clarkson!!!)

The trip to Colorado was sooooooo great! We had to cancel District Convention because we couldn't fight our way into Little Siberia (aka Craig, Colorado) through all the snow they were getting up there. We were bummed about that, but as Emilee said--God knows. We don't have to know His reasons, we just trust that He knows best. :-) The Convention is rescheduled for May.

We spent most of the drive on Thursday reading (proof reading, that is) stuff for the Literature Review Committee. James has been on that committee for 7 years now and this is only the 3rd time he's received anything to review (!), so we figured we'd better get it done. Made the trip go a little faster, I think, so it was nice.

We got to Colorado Springs just after 6:00 that night, got our motel room ('cuz Brother Dustin was too rude to invite us to stay with him... Well, something like that! HA!), unloaded our stuff, combed our hair and washed our faces, and made it to Church just in time for service. Perfect! It was Sister Dodie's WMB service and it was very good. We really enjoyed it. Afterward we went out to Denny's with the Hays family and Sister Karen. It was so nice. I really wish we had more time to fellowship like that. I would love to have a chance to get to know Jamey better, even if it means having to put up with Dustin for a little while. ;-) And I always love being with Sister Karen--she's been a favorite of mine for a whole lot of years now.

Friday morning we woke up to snowy weather reports for the northern part of Colorado, thus the cancellation of Convention. (And believe me, it's got to be pretty bad for us to cancel anything out here--our westerners aren't wimpy when it comes to snow!) We loaded up and headed to Denver and took the kids to the Children's Museum. A bit of a let-down, really. There must've been 4,000 kids there and you just can't have fun when it's like that. I hate crowds like that. The kids did enjoy the building section. The is the robot James helped Katie make.


The fireman outfits were great! They had a full-size fire truck for the kids to crawl all over and through, so that was pretty cool... If only there hadn't been 40 kids all over it!


Next we met Jon & Emilee and Company at Casa Bonita. Now, that was fun! There were people there, but not hordes of them. :-) For those who don't know, Casa Bonita is a restaurant in Denver that is... well, it's hard to explain! It's like a giant cave with lots of differnt rooms and passageways and a big waterfall with a lagoon down at the bottom. They put on shows (the bad guy always gets shot and falls from the cliffs down into the lagoon at the end) and all kinds of great stuff. The food is mediocre at best, but the atmosphere makes it worth it--especially when you have kids with you! They all had sooooo much fun! Although Joe (you all remember Gunshy Joe, I'm sure) pert near took his Dad out when we first walked into the restaurant because the western show was going on and somebody shot a cap gun... But even he was able to enjoy the show after a while. It was just so great! It's probably the most fun I've ever had there. Here's a picture of all the kids, minus Zeke.


After that we headed over to Mardel to check things out. James likes to compare his store to the others out there. The one in Littleton (where we went) isn't as nice as James', but it's still terrific. I think Jon and Em were pretty impressed.

We went back to the Smith house and spent the rest of the night just hanging out. It was so nice to have some "vacation time" with them! We hadn't been counting on that, so it was a nice turn of events. James, not being much of a partier, hit the sack. Jon and Em and I stayed up until 1:00 playing games. Jon won I Buy (the jerk), I won Scrabble (wonder of wonders--I'm so proud I beat Jon AND Em!), and nobody really won Scattergories... We all stunk at that one.

The next day we went down to Focus on the Family in 'Springs for the big Veggie Tales party. Well, kind of. If there were 4,000 kids at the Children's Museum then there were at least 8,000 at Focus. (It seemed that way, anyhow!) Keven & Michele and Dustin & Jamey and all their kids were there, but they had just finished watching Moe & the Big Exit. We didn't feel like fighting the crowds to see a show we'd already seen a week before the rest of them (Ha! Losers! ~big so-take-that smile~), so we just left. Went to the mall. Bad decision. It was Saturday and it's the worst I've ever seen Chapel Hills before. Ugh. That used to be the nice mall, the one you could go to and not have to worry about mobs of people. It was mostly just where all of the old people went to get their exercise in the mornings. Well, no more. It was like the Macy's parade in there, throngs of people pushing and shoving and yelling and just overall mass chaos. If I'm exaggerating, it's only slightly. The only reason we went there is because James had a hankerin' for Chinese food. And an Orange Julius. There's no such thing as an Orange Julius in these parts, so he wasn't going to miss his chance. Lunch was good (Kate & Joe and I had chili dogs from the Julius to spare us from having to eat Chinese--Sam actually eats the stuff), but that was the only enjoyable thing about the mall. That and leaving.

The traffic in 'Springs was about as crazy as the mobs in the mall. I can't figure out if it's really that much worse than when I lived there, or if I've just been so de-city-ized (can't figure a good way to spell that) that it seems so much worse. In any case, it's not nearly as enjoyable to just dink around town there as it used to be.

We drove over to have a look at Mardel over on the east side. (I told James that if he just calls up good old Mr. Green he could probably get a job as a district manager, what, with the way he keeps an eye on all those stores for him!) It's a brand new one and very nearly identical to the one James works at in Midland. The book section is actually a little larger in 'Springs, which was surprising. Fantastic store.

After that we went to Family Christian Stores. ~gasp!~ Can you imagine?! After being at Mardel??? We had to because James is a dope. He works at Mardel five days a week, but he never did pre-buy the new Veggie Tales, so he missed his chance to get it for the cheaper price. With his 20% pastor's discount at Family it made it cheaper to buy there than at Mardel. Dumb. Anyway, the kids sat and watched most of the show there at the store while James and I looked around. It was nice.

Let's see... Ah yes, then we went to Fargo's for dinner. It's a really great pizza place (although most people seem to think that the pizza is lousy) that is decorated like a really fancy... something (!) from the late 1800's. All of the waitresses wear burgundy and white lace dresses and stuff like that. It's neat. James's fascination with it is the old nickelodeon piano there. It's got tons of instruments in it--an accordion, a xylophone, a drum, a tamborine and a whole lot of others I can't remember. James had a pocket full of quarters on hand and made use of every one of them! If it was an option, I think he'd probably trade me in for that piano.

We then drove to Pueblo (are you tired yet? We were!) and did a little shopping (I picked up some terrific cherry socks and some knee-high pastel argyle ones at Target! Wa-Hoo!) and then went to spend the night with Keven & Michele. We had a really good time with them. Except every time we go there they ask James some question about taxes or some such money related thing and off we go--an hour or two of conversation that sounds like "blah, blah, blah-blah-blah, blah, blah, blah" to me. I told them that we are not discussing money next time we come--we're going to ban the word entirely and sit down and play a game or something. I tell ya'. ;-)
Keven & Michele made us a really great breakfast the next day--I was wowed. Who knew Keven could cook?! Crazy!!! It was great. Then we just kind of hung around until Church time at 2:00.

Since the Convention had to be cancelled, Jon (District Overseer) invited everybody who could to come together for the service in Pueblo that day. It was so good! Brother Keven taught Sunday School and such a good job. I was wowed. Who knew Keven could teach Sunday School?! (Kidding--I'm just kidding!) Sister Karen led song service and that was a blessing, as always. Then we had a really good time of prayer for backsliders and others who need to be saved. Afterward James preached a really good message. This is sounding eerily similar to what Em wrote on her blog, isn't it?! Ha! Guess we all had the same feeling about the service. :-)
Everybody stayed and visited for quite a while, which was nice. After a while I looked over to see Katie sitting on Brother Clarkson's lap, reading him a book. Pretty soon there was a crowd of kids sitting and standing around listening as well. It's probably a bad thing. She's going to want to have "Story Time with Katie" as a regular part of our get-togethers, I'm sure.

We finally loaded up and the whole crowd went to Country Buffet for dinner. God blessed us with a whole corner of the restaurant to ourselves. Actually, there were a few people seated nearby, but they cleared out pretty quick when they saw us coming. Who could blame them?! I think there were 12 kids under the age of 6 and several more in the next bracket up. Initially 11 of the little ones were crammed in the same corner booth. (I knew better than to put Sam over there with them--he sat with his Dad and was great all night long!) If that's not a recipe for disaster, I don't know what is. They were actually doing pretty well, but we're not naive enough to believe it would actually last. So Emilee and I went and moved the 5 little boys over to their own table. Girls are so much better than boys. The boys had 3 or 4 spilled drinks (some before they left the girls' table, some after), a food fight, one broken plate, probably very nearly a broken arm (Haley's Sam took a dive from his booster seat, taking his plate with him) and who knows what all else. I must say that my children were great. I only think they're bad until we get with other kids. Ha! No really, it wasn't quite as bad as it all sounds. It was still a lot of fun! We had a men's table and a women's table, which was a nice switch. I think the Amish have a good thing going... ;-)

I heard the party lasted until the restaurant closed at 8:30 (the employees were surly in tears by then), but our family had pulled out at 7:00 so we could make some tracks. We only made it to Raton, New Mexico, but that's better than nothing! We had a nice room and slept great...

Until we got a phone call at 3:30 in the morning asking for prayer for a friend who was having very strong chest pains and all kinds of crazy symptoms--those of a heart attack, we think. We had a good prayer for her, then I spent the next hour or two laying in bed praying for her before I finally fell asleep again. (The Lord touched her and she's doing great! PRAISE GOD!!!)

We drove home yesterday and I was able to read Book 7 of the Love Comes Softly series--only one more to go! We got home at about 7:00, which was enough time for me to unload the van and bathe three kids and a dog before putting them to bed. I spent the rest of the evening doing nothing, just talking on the phone with Mom and sitting around, mostly.

That brings us to today. I sorted through the mountain in the living room (the contents of the van that had been piled in the floor last night) and got most everything put away and the laundry started. Played ball outside with the kids for a few minutes, had a pizza party for lunch (we watched Moe, of course), and now here I am, blogging like the wind.

I've already had to ban Joe from his cowboy stuff for the rest of the day--new spurs and chaps included. I don't know what it is with that kid. Every time he gets something new like that, he gets an attitude to go along with it and has to have the new whatever confiscated for a time. This always creates a messy house because when he's been banned from something he goes around the house with an evil sideways grin, "setting traps" (two long Lincoln Logs, cross-crossed) all over the place while laughing, "Bwa-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha!" This, I suppose, is kind of like when he tried drawing a picture of me in jail a while back because I'd gotten on to him for something. Haven't quite figured out how to respond to the traps yet... Any ideas???

Okay, the laundry awaits. This is quite long enough anyway. Hope everybody had a great weekend!!! I'll write more soon... (That's the sure way to fail, isn't it? Commit yourself to it. It never works out like you say it will when you do that!)

~Rebekah~
P.S. -- Can't leave without posting this to-die-for picture of Abigail. I think it's my most favoritest one of the whole trip!!!

(You're welcome, Mom!)

On the Road Again!  

Posted by cokelady

We'll be leaving tomorrow morning for Colorado! Our District Convention is in Craig this weekend and we are soooooooo excited. They've got a terrific District Overseer up there ;-) and I can tell that he's put a lot into this function. If we can wade our way through the snow (wa-hoo!!!) and make it all the way up there, I expect it to be a great Convention! Since Craig is about 16 hours from Andrews we'll be driving part way tomorrow, then finishing our trek on Friday.

Things here have been good. Yesterday I loaded the kids up and headed to Midland in search of school desks. (The kids drive me crazy when we're trying to do school at the kitchen table--sitting this way and that, legs hanging off the side of the chair, up on their knees, then back down again, then just standing because it's a better height for them when they're trying to write--it's quite a fiasco.) I had contacted a Christian School down there (the public schools are too "regulated" to be able to sell you a desk--crazy!) and they told me to come take a look. The maintainance man led me to a storage room off of the gym that was stacked high in old, banged up school desks. I picked out three that didn't have old wads of gum welded to them (ga-ross) and he loaded them up for me... for free! Is that great, or what?!

We did some more running around, then came home, scrubbed the desks up real good, and whipped out the paint. I let each kid pick what color he wanted (of the ones that would match my office, that is), then they each got to help me paint their own desk, Sam first, then Joe, then Kate. There's no way I would attempt an everybody-paint-at-once party. You'd have to be totally insane. I wondered about my sanity allowing even one at a time to help. No, they actually did great--even Sam. In fact, he did a lot better than Joe. Poor Joe. That kid is such a slob. All of my efforts went into trying to smooth out the blobs of paint he left in is wake. In the end, they turned out great! They were pretty beat up, but now they look nice and fresh and clean. ~aahhhh~ Feels great. And just think--it cost us nothing but a little drive to Midland and some painting time! The paint was all left over from different painting projects here at the house, so that was perfect. Katie has window-shutters red, Joe has Mom's-office-walls gray, and Sam has living-room-wainscotting blue. ;-) It was a very long and exhausting day, so I ended it with a nice, hot bath. ~ah, yes~ It's amazing how great that feels! I should do it more often.

I don't want to take the time to write out all the details and I'm sure you don't want to take the time to read them all, so let's just say that I waged war on those dopey desks all morning long. It had something to do with trying to adjust the adjustable (ha) legs on them and it included lots of hammering and clanging and banging and grunting and groaning and twisting and pulling and shoving and even praying... That was all before I gave up and tried to fix the problem that I had created. It went downhill from there. My salvation was this nifty little clampy wrench thing that I found out in James' shed. (Yes, it was bad enough I dared to enter--insert dramatic sound effect here, then use your best Mystery Theatre voice--James' shed). In about ten minutes I had the desk back to how it was before I so cleverly decided that I could improve upon it. The grass is always greener, you know? Anyway...

Rats. I'm racking my brain trying to come up with a kid story... I made mental notes of several dopey little things they did today, but apparently I can't read my own mental handwriting. Oh well. You're in luck--I'll cut this short.

Everybody have a great weekend and please remember to pray for the Colorado District Convention. The theme is "Fervent Charity"--I think it's going to be great. :-) We plan to be home Tuesday night. Until then... (or perhaps a day or two after then--you never know!)

~Becki~

Fringe Benefits  

Posted by cokelady

Aren't they great??? As any self-respecting Veggie fan is aware, the newest episode, "Mo and the Big Exit," is to be released this coming Saturday. But one of the glories of having a husband who works at Mardel is that you sometimes get a headstart on the rest of the world. James brought the demo DVD home from work on Saturday for us to "preview" it! It was sooooooooo great!!! Highly recommended. :-) We made chocolate chip cookies that afternoon so we'd be all set to celebrate. We scarfed down our dinner so we could all rush into the den and start the party! The show is TERRIFIC!!! Possibly the best ever. I remember saying that same thing when Little Joe came out a few years ago, so perhaps it's just the whole western thing. Maybe other people won't get as much out of it as we Texans... Nah, I can't imagine anybody not enjoying this show!!! Hilarious. Don't miss it!!! Of course, the rest of you sorry ninnies have to wait until the end of the week... (HA!)

In other news, we took a trip over to Merkel to be in service with them again yesterday. As always, we really enjoyed it. The Lunas are good people and it's always so nice to be with them. I know they must get desperately lonely over there. They've been getting lots of pressure from the Naborhood (am I allowed to say that on the blog, James?) and are so weary of it. But they're doing really well. We had a real good service and then a real good meal afterward! Sister Luna always insists on cooking for us and she always has enough to feed an army, but she must've tripled her efforts this time! She gave me (just for me--nobody else!) a plate with 6 enchiladas on it (!!!!), then brought in two huge tacos for me (the homemade, greasy kind that are soooooooo good), along with the large brisket she had cooked and several other huge bowls full of beans, rice, fajita meat, homemade tortillas... You name it, she had it. I did my best, but there was just no chance of eating it all. I made it through the tacos and three and a half enchiladas, but that's the best I could do. I didn't even sample the other food on the table--I was too full. You always feel bad leaving anything uneaten at Sister Luna's house ("What, didn't you like it?," she'll say), but I just couldn't do any more or I was going to be sick. The kids ate with a passion, so that helped in the don't-offend-her-by-not-eating-enough department. Two or three tamales (ah, yes--she made those, too) apiece--Joe may have even had four. And James put his whole heart into not offending her, I assure you. ;-) Everything was soooooooooooooo good. Faye, this is so scrumptious!

When we left her house I told James that we were going to stop at K-Mart in Sweetwater--not necessarily to shop, but to be able to just walk a little bit of our dinner off! We ended up shopping, however. Boy, oh boy, did we shop! Came out with a cart crammed full of bargains. That particular store never fails to disappoint. We got 5 pairs of shoes (some to grow into) for either $3 or $5 apiece, 4 pairs of jeans for the boys ($3.50), some polo shirts ($3?), a Quantum Leap Pad for Katie to use in a year or two (regular price: $40; price we paid: $10), and I can't remember what all else. It was crazy. I told James that there are always so many good bargains there we always end up spending a fortune! "We can't afford to save money like this!!!"

Sam and Tammy came over to help assemble the regional paper last night and brought with them... fajitas for dinner! Ha! They, of course, didn't know about our noontime feast. We figured we'd been exercising gluttony all day already, so why stop now?! The fajitas were great. ;-) After we finished the paper we played our usual game. Tammy won this time. Wow! That never happens. It's not as good as if I were to win, but still a lot better than letting Sam win. ;-)

Guess that's about it around here. Mom will gripe if there aren't any kid stories. Hhmmm... I don't know if this counts, but the other day I overheard Katie telling the boys, "Mom wishes she was an octopus 'cause then she'd have 8 arms and she'd be able to hold 8 switches and then even if she had 8 kids she'd still be able to switch them all at the same time..." Ha! This is only vaguely familiar to me, but I'm sure that the original conversation (when I apparently told her all of this) took place at least a year ago--maybe two. The things kids remember, I tell ya'...

Well, I've gotta get to the Post Office and mail the Western Skies, then stop off at Tammy's for a minute. Have a great day! And get busy blogging, you bunch of slackers!!! ;-)

~Rebekah~

Been a While!  

Posted by cokelady

How come it's not as easy to blog as it used to be? I post something on my page and then look up and *wham-o* it's been almost a week. How did that happen?! And with so many fantastically entertaining things to write about!!!

Okay, so that last line was a little bit of a tease. I actually can't think of anything great to write about, which is probably why it's been nearly a week since the last post. No inspiration. Mom called this morning and asked if I'd whip up a poem for an old friend of ours whose birthday is today and who they'll be seeing tonight. It's so hard to come up with anything worthwhile unless you're really in the mood and feeling it, you know? I can't just sit down and write. I have to be inspired. My greatest source of inspiration usually comes in the form of a certain Williams over in North Carolina. As soon as I see him--or even just hear of him--I begin to wax poetic...in a rather sadistic sort of a way. Oh, but what fun it is!

Let's see, what's been going on around here... Our visitors were back on Sunday and then again last night. Praise the Lord!!! PLEASE pray for Kenneth and Clovis--we want to see them won to the Lord and to The Church of God! Also, I have a distant cousin (my Dad's cousin's son, if you can figure out what that makes him to me) who lives here in Andrews and my Aunt Sue has been in contact with him a little bit lately, even been babysitting his little girl this week. We're praying for God to make this into an open door and perhaps see this family start to come to church as well.

I got new glasses this week. Dumb ones. I always think I do well... until I go pick them up. I put them on and gasp, "What was I thinking?!" No, it's really not that bad, but they're pretty dumb. I'd just like to know how you're supposed to pick out decent frames. You take your real glasses off (the ones that actually enable you to see), put on the trial frames with normal lenses (that are always so smudged up it looks like somebody set off a smoke bomb in the building), then lean in until you're 6" from the mirror to try to see yourself clearly enough to know if the frames look good or not--like you'll really be able to tell that close up. Who set it up that way, anyhow?! Dumb. Anyway, I have knew glasses (dorky though they may be) and they--for the time being--are free from scratches and pits, so I'm a happy camper. :-)

I've been working on the regional paper this week, as well as the WMB boost I gave at Church last night. I think I've got the paper all finished now. I need to proof it one more time before we begin printing. I'm always so burnt out with it after staring at it for all those hours, I just dread having to read through the whole thing again. Isn't there anything else around here I can read instead?!

The kids are well. I guess. Sam has been a constant source of amusement this week. I made brownies a few days ago and was letting Katie and Sam polish off the batter that was left in the bowl. Sam was being a creep and not wanting to share with Kate, so I set him down from the table and told him he was done--"If you're not going to be nice, you're not going to have any." He pondered the brownies that were presently baking in the oven, then said, "Mom, when it's brownie time I'm gonna be good." Then, after a pause, "...I think." I cracked up. At least he knows himself well enough to assume that there's a great probability that he won't be good after all. Made me think of Romans, chapter 7 (is that where it is?) where Paul was talking about his pre-sanctification troubles. "That that I would not, that I do," etc. Poor kid. Ha!

A few nights ago I heard Joe hollering for me after I'd put everybody to bed. I went to see what the problem was and Joe said that Sam had been shooting his rifle in bed. (Of necessity, we have a "no guns in bed" rule around here.) I looked over and, sure enough, Sam had two rifles and a pistol in bed with him. I started confiscating them and asked if that was all. No, there was one more under the bed, he informed me. I never have taken time to count how many guns these boys have, but if I packed 10 away I'm sure they'd still find more to sneak into bed with them.

Yesterday they were all out playing and Katie started in on a "somebody just did something bad to me" scream and before I had a chance to even look out the window Sam was barging in through the back door. "Joe hurt Katie, Mom--not me!" He wanted to be sure there was no mistake--he was innocent this time. He gets enough blame for the things he actually does that I guess he wanted to be sure he didn't get blamed for Joe's badness, too.

Okay, I've gotta run. I'm gonna lay the runts down for a little while and see if I can get some things done around the house. James asked me last night, "So... is the vacuum cleaner broke or something?" HA! I guess I'll take that as my cue. Sad that it had to come to this, I know. Don't know why, but vacuuming is right up there with ironing on my list of things to procrastinate. Once I get started (with either one) it's no big deal, but for some reason I just have a terrible time getting motivated. ANYWAY, I'm outta here! Have a great weekend everybody!

~Becki~

P.S. -- Joe just came in the back door crying and rubbing a knot on his head while pointing at Sam, who had followed him in. Sam was covered in mud and explaining away, "Mom, dirt jumped on us! A bunch of it! All that bad dirt, it just jumped on us!!!" still giving no reason why Joe had been clunked in the head with who-knows-what. It's always somebody else's fault as far as Sam is concerned. He was blaming Katie the other day for something bad that he had done and it sounded eeirly reminiscent of Adam in the garden, "The woman that you gave me--she made me do it!" Sam never would have been bad if somebody else hadn't forced him into it. And we wonder why I'm going gray.

So What???  

Posted by cokelady

I decided I was going to slap a new post up here, but when I tried to pull up my Blogger account something went awry. (Is that spelled right?! What a crazy way to spell a word...) There was a short man with dark sunglasses, slick hair, and a suspicious lump on the left side of his pinstriped suit. "Hand it over, lady, and nobody gets hurt," he said. "Huh???" was my intimidating reply. "Your password. The boss wants your password and Google information and he wants it now. And don't try anything clever, lady. Just work with me and we'll have you on your way."

So here I am, signed up with the New Blogger, whatever that is. So my question is... so what??? What is the difference? How exactly is this different or improved from what I had before? There seems to be a little more jibberish on my dashboard page, but otherwise it looks eerily familiar. So the stick-up was... for practically nothing??? I was forced to switch over... why??? No matter. I'm here now. Hope you all can find me and don't have any trouble making it past the bodyguards. Dumb.

The reason I was going to post initially, was to report what a great husband I have. (I get distracted easily, thus all of the above.) I just got to feeling rather guilty, reading everybody else blogs about how great their husbands are or what they did for Valentine's Day. Didn't want mine to feel taken for granted (not that he has time to read the blogs anymore, but just in case...), so I figured it was only fair to let the world know that my husband isn't so bad either. ;-)

Our 7th Anniversary was on February 5th. Boy, does time fly!!! God's been sooooooo good to us and when I stop to really think about it, it's nothing less than miraculous that we are where we are today. I know that sounds pretty dramatic, but you have no idea! God is sooooo good and I'm sooooo thankful to have such a good husband, one who loves me and loves our kids and, most of all, loves God.

I made out with a dozen red roses and a box of chocolates for our Anniversary. I wrote a poem for James. (I'm hard pressed to get out shopping nowadays!) On Valentine's day he came home with three more roses (the yellow and pink ones that are so pretty) in a nice vase with baby's breath. I wasn't feeling very well that night and fed the kids hot dogs for dinner. I was giving Katie a bath and had just started rinsing the shampoo out of her hair when James called for me. I thought he must be wanting help with the latest Sam catastrophe, whatever it might be, but when I came to see what he needed, he was waiting for me at the kitchen table. He had cooked a homemade Italian dinner for me, complete with candlelight! WOW!!! I don't know if it was ziti or penne, but it was really good. And so very thoughtful!!! Of course, Katie was still in the tub getting chillier by the minute and the boys were in and out of the kitchen a dozen times or more asking the usual kid questions. ("What are you doing?... Why?... How come we're not eating, too?... Is it good?... Can I try a bite?... How long until it's time for our bath?... Katie's been in the tub for a long time, do we get to stay in that long?...) This is romantic as it gets when you've got kids, I guess, so I'll settle for it. ;-)

Then a few days ago when Tammy was keeping the kids for me I decided to go on over to Midland so I could actually look around at Mardel. The kids have always been with me before and there's not the liberty to spend the time I'd like to spend combing through the whole place front to back. I went to Hobby Lobby first, just for the fun of it. Then spent the longest time at Mardel. I met James' boss--seems like a really nice guy. I had been there for an hour or more and James said, "Hey, why don't you just stick around until I get off and we can go out for dinner!" It was almost an hour until he would be getting off, but it was worth the wait! We went to a nice steakhouse and split a ribeye and a half rack of baby back ribs. Yum!!! And it was so nice for just the two of us to go. Rarely happens, you know. One of these days we're planning to leave the kids with Tammy (she's the absolute bestest!) and drive over to Carlsbad Caverns. But even if that never works out, it's been a great Anniversary/Valentine's celebration around here!

That's it. Seems like there's so much more to talk about, but I'm sooooo tired and having a hard time getting my brain to work with me. I've done all I know to coax it into remembering what was on my mind earlier, but to no avail. Just as well. I'm reaching the "this post is long enough!" stage already.

Until next time...

~Becki~

The Birthday!  

Posted by cokelady

This past Tuesday was Katie's 6th birthday and Joe's 5th. Amazing. Where does the time go?!

James had the 12-8:00pm shift at Mardel that day, so that necessitated a morning party. Strawberry cake just an hour after the cinnamon rolls we had for breakfast. Crazy. The kids loved it, I assure you.

Tammy came over to join us. We sang to Katie and let her blow out the 6 candles on the cake. Then we removed one candle, relit the rest and sang to Joe. Ah yes, this is the way to have birthdays! I only wish Sam had been born on February 13th, too, so we could do all three kids in one whack--it's so great!


The kids, of course, had a ball. Katie had spent the previous days making decorations for her party, so there were construction paper Bobs and Larrys and cards and letters and even a 6' length of paper chain she had made. The kids loved all of the presents and Sam handled things amazingly well, I thought, being the only one not opening anything.

I said the kids loved the gifts. That's not entirely true. My Mom figured a cowboy can't have too many guns, so she got Joe a new set of cap guns with a holster, a new badge, and 2,000 caps for the guns. (Yeah, you read that right--2.000.) Joe, although possessing an abundance of guns, has never used any with caps before. (I stash them in a drawer and let him use the guns capless -- to cut back on at least a little of the chaos around here.) Well, he was very excited about his new cowboy stuff...


...until I loaded the caps into his gun and fired a few shots. Cowboy Joe quickly transformed into a yellowbellied sissy. He went screaming and crying out of the room and absolutely refused to come back. I finally ordered him to get back in the living room. He slowly peeked around the corner and then promptly disappeared amid sobs upon seeing the gun still in my hand. I should clarify. The gun was dangling loosely upside down between by thumb and index finger. No matter, it was still in my hand and therefore was surely going to go off again. I made Joe come and sit next to me on the couch while I tried to talk some sense into him. I called Mom and Dad to be sure they could share in the joyous moments they had caused. Dad laughed heartily, but then instructed me to remove the caps and give the poor kid the gun. "Tell him he's just a little cowboy now, and when he gets to be a little bit bigger cowboy and he thinks he's ready for them, you can put the caps back in for him." Pitiful. But I just wasn't up to the battle of making him shoot the thing with the caps. Joe's smile quickly returned once he'd heard Granddaddy's instructions. He agreed wholeheartedly. "Yeah, that's a good idea, Mom. Then when I'm older--like 15 or something--I'll be ready for the caps." I tried to encourage him that it might not take quite so long, maybe he'd be ready sooner than that. "Yeah. Maybe when I'm 14 like Jacob, hu?" Ha! As tramatized as he was, it may actually take that long after all!!!

Then there's Katie. She got her very first journal from Sister Tammy. She is sooooooo excited! This is what it says so far:

FEB. 13

I HAD A BITHDAY TODAY I HAD CAKE IT WAS A STRAWBERRY CAKE IT WAS GOOD AND VERY SWEET I GOT A NEW BOOK THE TOW NEW BOOKS WERR FOR MY LEAP PAD TOY AND I GOT TO BLOW THE CANDOWLES OWT I TERND 6 TODAY MY BROTHER HAD A BITHDAY TODAY TO HE TERND 5 TODAY AND HE GOT A GUN AND HE IS SCARED OF IT NOW IM GOWING TO BED AND WENN I FALL ASLEEP I WELL DREEM ABOUT WATT I WELL DO TOMOROW AND HAVE FUN GOOD NIGHT

FEB. 14

I WENT TO A VALENTINS PARTY AND HAD A SNAK AND LUNCH THEN I PLAYD GAMES WETH MY NEW FRINS THEN I WENT TO REST AND HAD A DRINK THEN I WENT AND PLAYD GAMES AGEN THEN I HAD ANOETHR SNAK THEN I PLAYD I GOT A NICE BITHDAY CROWN FROM THE LIBREY THEN I WENT HOME AND HAD A NAP I WOKE UP AT 1:00 THEN I HAD DINNER AND A BATH POGOMOS AND I WENT TO BED.

FEB. 15TH

I WENT TO SISTER TAMMY'S HOUSE TODAY AND I WACHT A MOKEY SHOW THE SHOW WAS FUNNY AND THE PAPA GURELU WAS RELY BIG AND STANLEY WAS THE BEST HE IS SKARD OF THINGS HE IS SKARD OF A LITTE BABY CAT HE IS SO FUNNY I LAVE AND LAVE AND LAVE AND THAR AR BAD MEN IN THIS SHOW THAT EYT OTHER PEPLE. GOOD BY.

Ha! Could you die?! My 6 year old is keeping a journal!!! Yes, yes, I know--we've got some serious work to do in the spelling and punctuation departments. Still, it's amazing to me that she's actually doing this! Crazy. And to clarify that last entry, the kids stayed with Sister Tammy yesterday while I went running all over Odessa and Midland (it was sooooooo great!!!) and she let the kids watch Africa Screams--you know, the old black and white Abbott and Costello movie. That's the monkey ("mokey") show she was talking about. Last night Joe went running up to James to tell him all about his day. "We watched a show at Sister Tammy's house with a bunch of bad people who were eek [naked] and wore jewelry and they ate people!" James swung around and said, "What in the world have my kids been watching?!?!?" Ha!

Okay, I gotta get. I've rambled far too long, as usual. I will leave you with a picture of Sam, since he didn't show up in the birthday shots earlier.

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Company & Convention  

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What could be better? Sister Marcia Brooks called last week to ask if she and Sara and Aaron could spend the night with us on Thursday on their way to Convention. Then they would be on their way to spend the week in Arizona and be at Grace's graduation party! Fun!!!

I was so thankful to have company. For starters, it got me motivated to pick up where I'd left off on that thorough house cleaning I was doing about a month ago. I never did make it to the bedrooms (I burned out after my office...), so this was the nudge to get me going again. I started at Katie's ceiling fan and worked my way down and voila -- a perfectly clean room!!! ~aaahhhhh~ Feels so good. The company wouldn't have really known the difference, but I know. It's a grand and glorious thing. ;-)

A clean room isn't the only benefit to having company, of course. I actually enjoy the company itself, believe it or not! :-) We get far too little of it since moving to West Texas, let me tell you. Sister Marcia and family (minus Jimmie--the bum) got here Thursday afternoon in time to do some relaxing and give me a chance to whip up a nice, home cooked dinner before church. Sister Marcia preached for us that night and we sooooo enjoyed it. Our visitors, Kenneth and Clovis, were back and seemed to enjoy the service as well. Afterwards we invited Clovis (the 15 year old son of Kenneth) over to the house to play games for a little while. We mostly just ate (I had made cinnamon rolls that afternoon), but we eventually squeezed in a game before he had to leave. It was great to have him join in the fun and I think he enjoyed it. Sam took him home and then went on home to study, but Tammy stayed and played games with the rest of us until way too late. It was great!

Friday we drove on over to Alamogordo for the Arizona, New Mexico & West Texas District Convention. It was such a blessing. The first night especially was just so very, very good. Such a wonderful spirit and good preaching of God's Word and--as always when we're with the Spanish people--such wonderful worship. I have never been in a service with our Hatch or Alamogordo people and gone away not blessed. Even the ones that know little or no English, thus inhibiting our communication, I just love them soooooo much. When they sing and worship and I don't know what they're saying, my spirit knows and I can feel the love and worship welling up within me. They are so wonderful.

The VanDeventers and the Clarksons made the long trek from Colorado to join us in Convention and give their auxiliary boosts. What faithfulness! And, as always, we enjoyed their company as well. After the Convention ended on Saturday we all (Marcia and family, the Clarksons, the Vans, Sam & Tammy, the Shulers, and our family--22 in all, I think) went out to Denny's... for a few hours! It was so much fun!!! Brother VanDeventer came down to our end of the table to visit for a while and I so enjoyed his company. I've always loved him so very much, but rare are the times when I get a chance to actually visit with him. He is just so loveable and admirable in every way. So honest and even blunt sometimes, but it never feels harsh or stabbing--everything he says and does comes from pure truthfulness and genuine love. Oh, to have a thousand more Virgil VanDeventers! :-)

I'm rambling. I really don't have time for that tonight. Tomorrow is Katie's 6th birthday and Joe's 5th. They requested a strawberry cake just like Sam had on his birthday, so it's in the oven right now. James has to work 12:00-8:00pm tomorrow night, so that means any birthday party will have to take place before he leaves at 11:00am. We're shooting for 10:00.

Back to Convention, it was sooooooo good to be with the Shulers. I wish we lived closer and had more opportunity to be with them. It's amazing how much those kids are growing up. It's just WRONG, really (!!!), but kind of neat, too. Grace isn't a kid at all anymore (you did GREAT on your boost, Grace--by the way!) and Jacob is turning into quite the manly man. (Although if anyone tells him that I'll have to deny it--he's going to have enough problems with his ego! Ha!) He's a bit of a ding-bat, though, so that's good. He's not all muscles and deep voice... yet! And Philip. I've always loved Philip so much! That kid is one in a million -- and soooooooo cute. Sara and Megan are getting so grown up and are a lot of fun to be around. And Tommy... to tell you the truth, I never saw Tommy! I mean, only for a moment here and there throughout the weekend. He was just never around. But I'm sure he's great! ;-) And, of course, it was great to be with Aunt Kay & Uncle Colin, too. I always enjoy our time with them and just wish we could have more of it. What a terrific family. I'm glad they're part of mine!

We stayed over in Alamogordo Saturday night and James preached there yesterday morning. We went to Golden Corral with the Coyazo's afterward (the usual routine!) before heading home. We actually stopped at K-Mart on our way out of town and are soooooo glad we did. James was able to get Joe's birthday present for half price! Wa-Hoo! We made it home at about 8:30 last night, I think.

Today has been a good day, however not very productive. Just can't seem to get things in gear! Maybe I'll be more successful tomorrow. After our 10:00am birthday party, that is. I've got a mountain of laundry waiting for me and it's sister mount of ironing will be growing yet more as the laundry comes to an end... ~ugh~ I hate it when I let it get like this. I guess that's about it from here. Oh, I finished up the 4th book of the Love Comes Softly series on the drive to Alamogordo. Sooooooo much better than the movie. Actually, it baffles me how they can even name the movie after the book. The only thing they had in common at all was the names of the characters--and only some of them, at that. Weird. Anyway, I'm outta here! At least my next post should have some birthday pictures instead of a bunch of boring rambling. (Or perhaps along with a bunch of boring rambling...)


G'night All!,
~ Becki ~

The latest  

Posted by cokelady

I can't recall anything at all about Friday or Saturday aside from cleaning, so I'll skip those days. Sunday was great, though--we had two new visitors in Church! Say a prayer for Kenneth and his 15 year old son Clovis who came to join us. We're hoping and praying that they'll be back again this coming Sunday. How exciting to have new people!!!

Monday morning was another field trip with the home schoolers. We went down to the fire station here in Andrews and it was terrific! The Fire Marshall is the nicest guy in the world and was sooooooooo good with kids. He taught a class, of sorts, about fire safety and answered lots of questions and just generally humored the 12 or 15 little kids. Then he took them out to show them his gear and let them climb around all over--and inside--the fire trucks and ask lots more questions. Then he drove one of the trucks out back so all the kids could take a turn spraying the hose. They thought that was fantastic!!!





The kids were so excited to get their picture taken with a real fireman, much less the Fire Marshall, himself! Ha! It was a blast.

Tammy came over for a little while to hang out and play games that afternoon, so that was fun too. It just happened to be James' and my 7th Anniversary, but we're waiting to really celebrate until we have a good opportunity! As for that night, I cooked fried chicken for dinner (James didn't even show up for dinner that night.... ahem!!!), made his favorite dessert (brownies) and wrote a poem for him. He had brought me a dozen roses and chocolates a couple of days earlier. One of these days we'll leave the munchkins with Tammy and at least go out for a nice, quiet dinner.

Yesterday I took Katie and Joe to an art class for little kids downtown. I found out about it through the home schoolers and thought we'd give it a try. It seems silly to take such young kids to such a thing (surely I could teach them anything at this level, right?!), but they had a blast and did sooooooo good! (Sam and I stayed to watch.) The lady had them practrice drawing different lines and shapes, then declared that they would now be able to draw anything since everything out there is made up of these types of shapes. The kids were thrilled and proceeded to copy the teacher's version of a horse, constructed of the shapes they'd just gone over. Katie did great and her horse looked almost just like the teacher's... except the legs. I asked her about it later and she said that the teacher's horse had pointy legs but she didn't want to give her own horse pointy legs because she didn't want it to fall over! Ha! What an "artistic" way of looking at it! We'll try this class a few times and see if it's something we want to stick with or not. Kate and Joe both LOVED it yesterday.

Today is library day and we'll be leaving shortly. Although we don't really need to get any more books at this point. James has brought home a whole bunch of new books from Mardel the past few nights--stuff that had gone on sale and (coupled with his discount) he was only paying pennies for. Cool!

Kid stories, kid stories... Mom said I need some on here. I'm thinking. Let's see... Oh, Katie has been amazing me again. We missed our devotions the other morning and when I walked into the living room later that day she was sitting on the couch with my devotion book (a read-the-Bible-in-a-year book that tells you which portion to read for the day) and her own Bible in her lap. She had found the correct page to go with that day's date and had found the right place in her Bible and was reading our daily devotion all by herself! That was amazing enough, I thought. But then I remembered where we were in our reading... Exodus! She was reading about all of the dimensions of the tabernacle and how many cubits the curtains were supposed to be and how many sockets were to be in them, etc. !!! Crazy kid. Makes a Mama mighty proud, though. :-)

Then there's Joe. He's a beginning reader now and doing pretty well. He writes things frequently and I can always tell what he's trying to say because he sounds things out perfectly. But that often means that there are no vowels involved, because he just doesn't hear them when he says the word. The other day he made a sign that said, "NO GRLZ ULOWD" or something similar. He taped it to the door and then said, "Hey, Mom, does that say 'no girls allowed'?" "Not exactly," I said. As he was walking casually out of the room he said, "Well, that's what it says to me!" Ha! I guess that's all that matters!

And then, of course, there's Sam. He's just been doing the usual. Yesterday I found him in the kitchen banging a hollow plastic toy on the floor trying to knock something out of it. "Come out of there you Ramen noodles!," he was saying, "I know you're in there!!!" Thinking back to our lunch an hour earlier, I knew he wasn't kidding. ~sigh~

Guess that's it from here. Gotta get the monkeys looking good enough to take to the library! Have a great one!!!

~Bec~

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Blogger's Block  

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Am I the only one??? Just haven't been able to think of anything to write about. Which is crazy! I just took a trip to Colorado, had a Girl Party, and--of course--there's the endless supply of blogworthy material supplied simply by living with three little people. Guess I just haven't been in the mood. It's a good thing I don't have to worry about NARR. ;-)

The trip to Colorado was terrific! We left when James got off work last Thursday night and got a few hours behind us. We stopped and got a motel room in a little town called Hereford, Texas. I remember because it smelled like a cow. Actually, this was without a doubt the smelliest trip I've ever taken. Driving through Texas is alwasy an aromatic experience, but usually the odors come and go as you pass by beef farms and active oil rigs. Not so this time. The whole state just stunk. Stank? Stinked? Anyway, it was terrible. I don't think Sam is ever going to be the same again. Every time he's seen a cow since then he's sure to point it out. "Look, Mom, it's a cow. Cow's stink. 'At's a-scusting!!!"

Back to the motel. The room itself was very, very nice and I've never been so glad to have my handy scented candle in my overnight bag! It made the room pleasant enough we could uncover our mouths and noses and actually sleep. I even forgot about being in a cowy town until we opened the door the next morning. ~ugh~ The lobby was great, though, and their waffle irons made waffles in the shape of Texas! How cool is that?! The kids thought it was fantastic.

The drive into Colorado was amazing. Just enough fresh snow to make everything look clean and fresh and beyond gorgeous. Besides the cool, crisp mountain air, which I appreciated all the more after our cow/oil infested trip. When I go back there I'm reminded all over again of how very blessed I am to have grown up in such a magnificent place. As happy as we are in Texas, it still feels like "home" when I drive through those mountains and I soak it all in with an appreciation I never could have had while I lived there.

We were able to visit with Dad and Jon for a little while up at the Men's Retreat campground before the kids and I headed on to Denver. We got to Emilee's house at about 8:00, I think. We let the kid-o's play for a while, then put them to bed and started the girl party! We spent most of our time sipping on flavored cocoas and looking through my old photo albums, per Haley's request. I don't remember what we did after that, but it must have been enjoyable because we were up until 3:00am!

The next day Haley's cousin Laura came over to meet the Master. Emilee, that is. You see, Laura is just getting into scrapbooking and brought her book over to show what she's done so far and receive some pointers. Emilee is amazing and had helped her make a few improvements and filled her mind with lots of ideas and inspiration before she left a couple of hours later. Laura is a really, really nice girl and it was fun to be with her.

We made hearthside cider and a pumpkin roll that day. Uummm... ordered pizza for dinner... I'm thinking... I know we didn't do anything with the kids and rarely even saw them. They just hung out in the basement the whole time. Watching videos most of the time, I'm afraid! Oh well, it was a party, right?!

That night we girls stayed up and played games. I Buy, Clue, Memory Madness, Yatzee... And talked. And laughed a lot. Although I can't seem to recall anything specific that was actually funny, now that I think about it. Oh well. That's what girl parties are all about, right?! We lasted until 2:00am that night. I was at Emilee's house for a total of about 36 hours and we slept all of about 6! Ha! Maybe just a little more... ;-)

The next morning I loaded the kids up and headed back to the Men's Retreat campground. James rode with Jon and Dad rode with me so that I'd have at least a little while to visit with him. We went out to eat in Salida, then visited at Chris & Shanda's house until church time. We had a good service and Dad preached a really, really good message on sanctification. Wow. I was so blessed. Afterward, Jon and Dad left for Denver and we stayed the night with Chris and Shanda. It was so great to be with them! I still miss the time we used to spend with them when we lived in Salida and it's sooooooooo good to have a taste of it every now and then!

We drove back to Texas the next day and it seemed like a very, very long trip after our weekend of very little sleep. It was fun, however, as it usually us. The kids didn't get restless until the last hour or so, so I tried to come up with things to keep them occupied. We sang for a while, then I started up our own Memory Madness type game. I'd give them a category and they'd take turns giving an answer until somebody couldn't come up with one. We started with colors and then animals. Then Katie said she wanted to pick the category. Her choice? Bones. Do you know how embarrassing it is to have to play a game like this with your 3, 4, and 5 year olds and you're giving answers such as "ribs" and "pelvis" while your kids are saying "clavicle," "phalanges," and "metatarsals"? One of Joe's answers was "cervial vertibrae." Dumb Leap Pad. Those things were only created to make parents look stupid. Do a pretty good job of it, too.

It's been a good week since we got home. I got unpacked on Tuesday and got the house straightened up. I've been doing lots of school and kid-related things since we've been home. Got both nasty bathrooms scrubbed down, shining, and smelling strong of cleaning chemicals. And I have half of the kitchen floor scrubbed to a shine, too. The other half comes today.

I took the kids to Midland on Thursday and we did big shopping at Wal-Mart. (It had gotten so bad around here that the night before we had had peanut butter and jelly sandwhiches... on hamburger buns (!)... with Ramen noodles... for dinner!) We met James at Mardel, then we all went out to dinner together. Afterward, James took the kid and grocery laden van back to Andrews and I took the car over to Odessa for Ladies' Bible Study at Stacey's house. Afterward, Stacey lent me a couple of books from her vast collection of Christian fiction. I went home and read the first one (Love Comes Softly) that night (only took me 'til 2:00am -- I'm so dumb!!!), then the next book in the series last night (done by 12:30am). It was so great!!! It feels so good to be caught up enough on things to actually spend some time reading. It's so much better than watching a movie--even a good one. Just seems like it's good for your brain or something. Anyway, it's been great.

Aside from that, we've had the general kid craziness around here. Joe had a personal weapon ban for a week after he shot Katie in the face with one of his dart guns... twice. I made him go around and collect every piece of weaponry in the house and I stashed them all away. That was a long week for all of us. Joe does little else nowdays than shoot guns, bows & arrows, slingshots (even if it's just a stretchy lizard he has) and slash things with swords or makeshift knives. He spends most of his days in the backyard now and I'm thinking it's a good thing.

Enough rambling. I was just trying to make up for the week+ that I took off. ;-) Hope all is well with everybody -- and I hope we see some activity out there on the blogs sometime soon!

~Becki~